From Tradition to Adventure A Journey of Self-Discovery by Deepa Menon

I was born in South India (Kerala) in a middle-class family. Life had a clear path: study hard, respect elders, take care of your people, and stay grounded. My childhood was simple—school uniforms, classical dance lessons, report cards, after-school tuition, and shared chores at home. We valued culture and community: family gatherings, temple visits, festival food, and morning prayers before rushing to school. I was taught to be humble, speak softly, and not talk back. Back then, “outdoor” for me meant school sports during physical training (PT) classes. Evening games with family were common, like badminton in the lane. We also played board games sitting in the corridor.

Moving to the USA changed that perspective. I saw families spending their weekends on trails. Kids were learning to swim as a basic skill. People explored parks together. Peer pressure lead me to sign my son, Adithya, up for swim lessons and I watched from the bleachers. A quiet question formed: if he can learn new skills, why can’t I?

One step led to another. I learned to swim. It was a humongous task for me, as I had never been to water above my knees. Then, I trained for scuba and got certified as well. I said yes to skydiving with my mom for a birthday. I took on bigger hikes and learned to pace myself, carry safety basics, and listen to my body. Some days were smooth; others were hard. I trekked with my son to Everest Base Camp. We walked Salkantay to Machu Picchu. We also handled the long, unexpected walk out during political unrest. Annapurna Base Camp in the monsoon and Kailash–Manasarovar changed my perspective towards life.

I kept learning from each journey. I also came back from a serious accident during rock climbing. My long recovery taught me that patience, support, and small steps rebuild a life. All these stories, journeys and learning’s from them are the reasons to get started with this blog.

I’m not a professional athlete, and I don’t aim to be. I’m a learner with strong roots—family first, humility, and respect—who found joy outdoors. This blog shares real experiences. It also shares mindset shifts that help you start when you feel unsure. They keep you going when it gets tough. My approach is steady and honest: start small, go at your pace, prepare well, and finish together when you can.

My upbringing still guides me. The same values—care, responsibility, and being grounded. Moving countries didn’t erase who I am; it widened the horizon. If part of you wants to try something new and another part is cautious, you’re not alone. Start with what you have, take one step at a time, and let curiosity grow alongside care.

Most limits live in the mind. Most progress is built quietly. It happens one thoughtful step, one kind choice, and one day at a time.

I’m glad you’re here. Let’s learn, explore, and carry our roots with us as we step outside. Since I strongly believe! – It’s all in the mind.